Hi, I'm xylar
You probably found me through a dating app, welcome! I'm dreaming of self hosted queer web and happy polypartner household 🏡💕
I'm very open and chatty, but in the lawless land of the internet, I care deeply about digital privacy. I'm not using mainstream social media anymore because they allow hate speech and gather our private data to sell for profit. Therefore if you want to reach me, the only link I offer here is a secure messaging service.
My favourite right now is SimpleX. It is free, encrypted, anonymous and open source.